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FAIL (First Attempt In Learning): Embracing Failure for Personal Growth

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"A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing." ~ George Bernard Shaw Imagine a life where you never make a mistake, where every endeavor you undertake is met with unceasing success. It might sound like a dream come true, but in reality, such a life would be devoid of growth, resilience, and the invaluable lessons that come from failure.   In this article, we will explore the transformative power of failure and how it can be a stepping stone to your personal development. The Negative Mindsets and Beliefs Surrounding Failure Society often perpetuates negative beliefs and mindsets regarding failure. It's seen as a stigma, a blemish on one's record, and a source of shame. Many people fear failure and will go to great lengths to avoid it. They believe it's a sign of inadequacy, a dead-end, and the end of their dreams. These misconceptions can hold individuals back from their true potential. Debunking the Myth

Finding True Happiness: Seeking God Within

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In the pursuit of happiness, many of us often overlook the profound wisdom found in seeking God. It's not that our desire for happiness is misplaced; rather, the issue lies in seeking happiness exclusively outside of our spiritual connection with the divine. The Bible imparts invaluable guidance on this matter. In Psalm 16:11 (NIV), it is written, "You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand." This verse emphasizes that true happiness emanates from being in the presence of God and aligning our lives with His divine plan. The world offers fleeting pleasures and external validations that can never fill the void within our souls. Matthew 6:33 (NIV) reinforces this concept, urging us to "seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." In essence, the pursuit of happiness should begin within, through a deep relationship with G

Rap Songs That Resonate With Me (PART 1)

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  J. Cole's hit song " Middle Child " has become one of my favorite songs for several reasons. The song's catchy beat and J. Cole's signature flow are undeniable, but it's the lyrics that really resonate with me and make this song a standout. At its core, "Middle Child" is a song about feeling overlooked and misunderstood. J. Cole describes himself as the "middle child" of the rap game, stuck between the established stars and the up-and-comers. He feels like he's not getting the recognition he deserves and that he's constantly fighting to prove himself. As someone who has often felt like the "middle child" in various aspects of my life, I can relate to J. Cole's struggles. But what I love about this song is that it doesn't just dwell on the negative. Instead, J. Cole turns his frustration into motivation, using it as fuel to push himself harder and work even harder to achieve his goals. One of my favorite lyrics in

There Is More To Self-Development

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Self-development goes beyond you earning multiple certifications, being well read, and earning big bucks. All of that is good. But in truth, true self-development cuts across every aspect of your life. It is in you being aware of the various areas of your life where you could improve or do better.  It is in how you relate with people, it is in how you confront issues from a place of love and optimism, it is in being open-minded, it is in how you feel about yourself, it is in the quality of satisfaction you get from life generally.  True self-development is refreshing, it is liberating and wholesome. #BookOfChris #ChrisOfCreativity #elileojoblog

What I Learnt By Spending Time With Blind and Partially Sighted Children

So yesterday (1st of April, 2023), for the fist time ever, I joined my friends from the Catholic Youth Organization Nigeria (CYON) for a charity visit to Pacelli School For The Blind And Partially Sighted Children in Surulere, Lagos. What I saw there blew my mind and strengthened my belief that nothing is impossible.  At Pacelli, I saw lots of children who were either blind or partially sighted do amazing things like: play melodies on musical instruments, walk without bumping into people or objects, play a soccer match, skip on the playground, swing and even ride a merry-go-round without any aid. I quickly noticed how intelligent, polite, friendly and well organized the children are.  You won't believe it but, two of these children actually took me on a tour around the school compound and told me exactly where we were in the school at every point of the tour. Amazing right! While bonding with some of these children, I was inspired by the joy and excitement on thier faces while they

All Adults Ask This Question, Here's How To Answer It

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The Big Question: "Am I making progress?" Answer Guide: The best way to know if you are making progress in life is to reflect on your goals and assess your progress against them. Consider if you are taking steps towards achieving your goals, if you are learning new skills, and if you are feeling more fulfilled. Additionally, look at your relationships and how they have changed, as well as your financial situation. Finally, take stock of the changes in your life and the way you feel about yourself. . . . Using this guide, your outcome might be a bitter pill to swallow. But it would help you reprioritize and make the right adjustments where necessary. Be encouraged, as long as you're still alive, you can change your life for the better. Cheers!

How Being Committed Improves Your Quality Of Life

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Commitment is defined as the state or quality of being dedicated and loyal to something or someone. It is a promise to yourself and others that you will remain devoted to a cause or task, regardless of the obstacles or challenges you may face. Commitment is important because it allows us to focus our energy and resources on achieving a goal, and it can provide us with a sense of purpose and direction in life. Commitment is important because it helps us stay focused and motivated. When we make a commitment to something, we are more likely to stay on track and put in the hard work needed to reach our goals. It also helps us build discipline and resilience, as it requires us to stay focused and motivated even when things become difficult. Commitment also helps us build better relationships with others, as it shows that we are reliable and trustworthy. Commitment can also benefit you in the following ways: - It can help you stay organized and on track with your goals, as