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“You are not entitled to your opinion. You are entitled to your informed opinion. No one is entitled to be ignorant.” ~ Harlan Ellison As humans, we’re often defensive or even scared of things we don’t understand, know little - nothing about, or things we will never understand because we aren’t affected by them directly nor indirectly. The only way out is to unlearn our prejudices and learn to be accepting of others if we truly care about ourselves and want to get the best out of others. Labeling others can make us feel more superior, but that’s not a good habit to get into. In utmost simplicity, the term " LABELING " means to incompletely describe someone or something by using a word or a short phrase to highlight one particular trait of that person over their other traits. For example, describing a person as "toxic" and negating other positive truths about them.  Researchers began to study the cognitive effects of "labeling" in t

It is better to be out of your mind if it has always been in a NEGATIVE state, let go, close your eyes, breathe and dive into a world of beautiful possibilities. The world isn't against you, but rather, your thoughts, experiences and beliefs are against you - remember, how you choose to live your life is your business, live it WELL.  The HOLY SPIRIT is contemporary.  Be the light and the salt it's more rewarding. ❤️

We don't see things as they are. We see them as we are. ~ Anais Nin _____ The word perception comes from the Latin "perception-, percepio ," meaning "receiving, collecting, action of taking possession, apprehension" with the mind or senses. In contemporary psychology, perception is the brain’s interpretation of sensory information so as to give meaning to it. In the field of psychology, the Implicit Personality Theory acknowledges the patterns we use in forming impressions about other people, despite having minute information about them. According to Aronson et al, 2010; social perception refers to the ability to make accurate interpretations and inferences about other people from their general physical appearance, verbal, and nonverbal patterns of communication. However certain factors come into play to shape or even distort perception, which domicile in: In the perceiver; these include the perceiver's Att

My Life's Journey Is My Destination - - and the most beautiful truth I've come to realize is that the imperfections & setbacks of life are scenes and characterizations which all help to create this beautiful story called REALITY - - Always find yourself, no matter how often you get lost in the distractions of this #DREAM called life -- Hmm, but What if LIFE in the here and now was just a simulation to prepare us for something more substantial? 💭 and DEATH was our only exit out and entrance back in to our true infinite spirit nature.

You are God in a physical body.  You are Spirit in the flesh.  You are Eternal Life expressing itself as You.  You are a cosmic being.  You are all power.  You are all wisdom.  You are all intelligence.  You are perfection.  You are magnificence.  You are the creator, and you are creating the creation of You on this planet. 

Faith Without Works Is Dead  ((James 2:14-26)) - - Inspirational Quotes Won't Get You There, Action Does. ~ Dan Lok In a nutshell, of course inspirational quotes and motivation speech give you the pump you need to fire your engine (mind); but the fact is, you still need good old fashioned discipline for self-drive (taking the required action) to actually get you from start point A to destination Z.  Therefore I encourage you today not just to feel inspired/motivated, but to actually take that leap of faith by eating the ugly frog (doing the necessary work) TODAY.... No Procrastination 🚫

Ellen Degeneres once said "To me, beauty is about being comfortable in your own skin. It's about knowing and accepting who you are" and I totally agree with her. Sadly, over the years I have  come in close contact with people (friends & acquaintances, women & men, adults & children, straight & gay, single & married alike) who don't feel secure in their own bodies. Some of these beautiful individuals either feel unattractive, uncomfortable in their own bodies, ashamed or just wish they had someone else's body. Based on talks and studies, I realized that these insecure feelings were majorly as a result of the  physique junk being dished by mainstream media, and body shaming from close friends, family and relevant others they've had to be in close contact with. Nonetheless, the fact still remains that you are perfect; so stop wishing you looked like someone else, wishing people liked you as much as they like someone else, hating y