APPEARANCE & CHARM

 

Your appearance doesn't just influence your confidence level, but also has a strong impact on people's perception about you . Appearance goes beyond what you see in the mirror , as it also lies in your actions and personality as a whole. It has the strong ability to either allure or repel things your way, It is your charm.

Some points  about charm:

1. Charm has almost nothing to do with how your look physically, though your natural physical disposition does play a small role. It’s mostly about how you put yourself together and how you behave.
2. The most basic and overlooked staple of being charming is smelling good. Playing into the other senses this is what ultimately makes someone irrefutably appealing, and tends to be what people will focus on more than just the visual.
3. There is no one universally appealing style. It’s about what cut of clothing and accessory will emphasize the best parts of you and your personality.
4. The more you are a kind and likable person, the more charming people will find you. People are naturally quicker to associate good looks with a good person, and vice versa.
5. Your natural hair color will always be most fawning.
6. Charm has nothing to do with your weight or size, but how you carry yourself, which translates to what your mindset about yourself and your body is.
7. Being dressed in ill-fitting clothes and shoes are the worst thing you can do to yourself, both for the sake of comfort, as well as for appearances. For example: no woman looks charming in heels she can’t walk in.
8. Charming people always have personal style staples that they incorporate into their “look.” Figure out what it is about you that you like most, and play that up. It makes you more confident.
9. Without cleanliness, charm doesn’t go far.
10. You never see yourself as you actually are. Remember that every time you think a photo of you is terrible. Ensure your looks be the icing on top of your attractive cake.
11. There is hardly ever a charming person who complains about being unattractive, even if they feel that way sometimes.
12. Charming people are always appropriately dressed for the situation at hand. It’s never appealing to be under-dressed for an interview or inappropriately clothed for a funeral. Be respectful of your circumstances.
13. Likewise, dress for the weather. If someone looks freezing or uncomfortable, that is what people will be focusing on, not that they look fantastic in a certain small skirt, but just that they’re probably freezing in the cold.
14. The more you call attention to your natural features, especially the ones that are “quirky” or different, the more uniquely appealing you become.
15. Though, earlier stated, weight does not matter in charm, its salient to note that health does.
16. Being fit will always be more charming than looking skinny.
17. Pushing your charm in other people’s faces will not convince them that you look appealing. For example: People call Beyoncé a goddess because she wouldn’t say that herself, because she's charming and doesn't push it.

Conclusively, If your number one goal is to see to it that everyone loves and approves of you, then you risk sacrificing your uniqueness and excellence.

  

YOU ARE A LEADER!!!